By admin on January 12, 2010

The L.A. Gay and Lesbian Center presents on Saturday February 13th, 2010 from 8:30-11:45 am:

CREATING A FAMILY: A half day conference for prospective Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender parents.

Preparing to start a family through donor conception

Wendy & Ryan Kramer Co-Founders of Donors Sibling Registry

Sacha Finn a local donor conceive youth and member of COLAGE (Children of Lesbians and Gays Everywhere)

Join Wendy Kramer, Ryan Kramer, and Sacha Finn to share knowledge, experiences, challenges, concerns and insights of families that have chosen the path of donor conception.  The discussion will focus on the importance of always asking the question “what is in the best interest of the child to be born” and the need for a more open forum dialog amongst the parents and children in the donor community.

Come to be the first to hear about our current research of 286 donor children born to GLBTQ parents and what we have found to be important to children conceived through donor insemination.

For more information, and to register, please email: familyservices@lagaycenter.org.

We look forward to meeting you!


By admin on December 12, 2009

The three surveys for parents are ready!

1. Recipients of Donor Sperm (gestational moms)
2. Non-bio Parents of Sperm Donor Children (moms and dads)
3. Parents of Egg Donor Children (one or both parents together can take this survey)

We really struggled with trying to have just one survey for all parents, but there were so many different questions that just didn’t pertain to all parents, that we decided it was necessary to create three separate surveys.

We will be gathering information about choosing donors and sperm banks, pregnancies and births, raising children and medical issues. Many of the questions included in the survey were formulated as a direct response to issues we found in the donor and offspring surveys. We have an amazing opportunity to use our collective experiences to better educate the infertility industry so that their future policies might be more influenced by the needs of us- the donor families.

I hope everyone will participate. For recipient moms with spouses/partners –  we rarely hear from the non-bio parents so please encourage your spouse/partner to participate.  We want to hear from them!

Because these surveys are a bit longer and because we know your spare time is precious,  we will be offering a random drawing of 10 cash prizes of either $100 (DSR members) and $50 (non-members) for those who complete the survey by January 31, 2010.

Survey for recipients of donor sperm:
http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/TS72J7N

Survey  for non-bio parents of sperm donor children:
http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/8RZ6ZTX

Survey for parents of egg donor children:
http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/GFHTQN3


By admin on November 27, 2009

Hi PRS, Repro Lab and Fertility Ctr. of CA Families,

I want to forward a letter that I sent to Sherron at PRS last week. I wanted to make sure that you were aware that PRS sells sperm through a Mexican clinic and that it looks like there are several PRS donors on the Mexican clinic’s list. The link: http://www.centrodefertilidad.com/catalogo.html. There are several different pages of donor lists, so make sure to look at them all. Also, just because your donor may not appear on the current list, does not mean that he hasn’t been listed in the past.  Archive.org can show you lists from prior years. For example, here is the link to a 2008 list:
http://web.archive.org/web/20080620145136/http://www.centrodefertilidad.com/catalogo.html

Given the difficulty that the sperm banking industry has had in keeping track and updating medical records of children born from donors, I see this as worrisome. Just last month a PRS donor was reported to have passed along a fatal heart condition to many of the 22 (known!) offspring he helped to conceive.

We at the DSR believe that it does matter where the sperm you buy originates from. We feel that everyone has the right to know the truth about the origins of their sperm so that they may have a chance of connecting with their half siblings and/or donors. As we have never had anyone from this Mexican clinic register on the DSR, I doubt that these families have any idea that their donors are from PRS. I also doubt that they are adequately counseled and educated about the importance of allowing children the right to be curious and search for half siblings. From what I have been told, donor conception is a closed, secretive business in Mexico . If there were to be a medical issue, or if the children wished to connect with yours as half-siblings, they would most likely be out of luck.

We know that other clinics also ship their sperm around the world. Xytex ships to Canada and Australia , but the clinics they ship to have become much better at advising people about the origins of the sperm they are purchasing. Many people from these clinics are connecting with their half siblings here in the US. Some of these clinics are actually handing out DSR brochures to their recipients. My guess is that no Mexican sperm recipients are walking out of that clinic with a DSR brochure in their hand.

This Mexican clinic was started by Repro Lab and the Fertility Ctr. of CA and we found their donors on the list too (these two banks share donors already). I have written both of these labs too, but not received a reply. PRS did reply, “For international sales, we have processes in place for the required reporting of pregnancies and their outcomes as well as informing parents of any medical issues that may arise.”

I wonder if these international “processes” are similar to the (inadequate and ineffective) ones currently in place by sperm banks in the US?

Wendy

My letter to Pacific Reproductive Services:

I just came across the website for the Center of Human Fertility in Mexico and am very surprised to see PRS donors listed in their catalog.

Do you notify PRS donors that their sperm is being exported to Mexico ? Are PRS families aware that there might be unknown matches in other places around the world? Considering that claim to keep careful tabs on offspring and recipients, are you then also keeping track of the Mexican births? How does this tie in with your limitations on the numbers of families to conceive with any one donor? Are there other countries that you export to, that we haven’t uncovered yet?

Apparently Reprolab and The Fertility Center of California also have donors listed in the Mexican catalog. How are DSR members to know who their children are related to if this type of practice takes place? How is urgent medical information to be shared?

So far, I have identified 8 of the donors on the Mexican list as PRS donors, with a total of 40 families and 72 children on our site who have used these donors. In addition, I see that one of these donors also donated at TSBC.

I look forward to your reply.

Wendy